Got a huge assignment due in the morning for my class but I'll watch those tomorrow as soon as I can!
H and I did our homework which basically is 30 minutes of stress free conversation a day: 15 min. each to tell about our days, etc... During his 15 min. he mentioned checking into apt. pricing nearby. Then he added, "not that I've made a decision..." Of course, during this exercise you aren't supposed to comment back. You're just supposed to listen and validate. So, not much I could say to that. Did my heart go "thud" when he said it? Sure it did. I didn't let it show though.
He said S16 talked to him when he went to pick S16 up. He commented that S16 said "everything would be fine -he's not worried - it's in God's hands..." Ummm....S16 told me this morning he was totally pissed about all of it! I don't know why he didn't tell H that!
It just goes to your point, Allen, that these secret convos don't need to happen anymore. It makes me a little aggravated with S16 because he talks so tough with me yet not with his dad. I really wanted him to tell H how upset he would be - and how angry he was - yet instead, he ends up saying, "he knows everything will be fine." ??? Geez. That's why they're 16 though - they aren't adults and shouldn't be expected to act like adults or have to have adult conversations with their dads about leaving. Sigh.
