Hi Dan,
I do not often post, just read, but had to chime in here....

"I talked to W briefly today about the vacation $ and mentioned that this is going to ruin both of us financially. She again said that this isn't about the $, so maybe she will be reasonable. Who knows."

I know! She is not being reasonable.....why should she be worried about finances? She just screwed you over big time!!! Of course it is not about the money, she doesn't have any money...you are the only one that has money to worry about.

She is playing you like a fiddle....if court was not proof, you must be blind. Get your crap together. Stop taling to her AT ALL until the next court date.


M:38
H:42
T:20 M:19
D:18 S:17
MLC: Sometime in 2007
OW Bomb 1: 12/28/07
OW Online relationship 2: Spring 2009
Told him I wanted D: May 10, 2009
D final: 07/09/11