RHW I am right there with your sentiments. Been lurking in this thread and feel the same way. Divorce really does make you a better person and makes you stronger.
My own bombaversary is coming up in Oct so I have a bit to go.
But I can plainly see my personal growth and improvements and my strenth even if my XW never will. It is her loss and she is a fool. But I will not be a fool for her any longer.
I now know what it feels like to truly be loved and respected by a woman. This is something I never really got from my XW. At least not for years. I forgot what that really felt like.
((Aver)).
Aver, How about you deep fry that fish for us and we will all come over and Ill bring some beer.
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me