Proud of you IDU. Don't have time to write a full reply, but I am with you, and think this is the right move. It will be less scary as you adjust to it.

Remember that you did not choose this; your wife did.

WAW Using God
Me-43
W-40
M-14
S-11
S-9
D-7
EABomb 5/09
Separated 12/09