... If you haven't already done so, consult with one or two other L's- it's often free- and have all your numbers and papers with you when you go. Do this now, like in the next 24 hours. If you need to take some time off of work then do it. Nothing is more important now....
Very wise words.
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...I've heard it's pretty hard to change even the temporary orders (it can be done) but you should get it the way you want it now, not try to fight it later when it's already established... The longer those temp orders stay in place and work, I think the harder to fight them later.
My lawyer said temp orders are testing grounds....It is very important to set precedence NOW!!!!!
"Lawyer, I decided that the temp orders do not work for me. I am currently a full time parent and am not going to be a weekend dad. What can you do for me?"
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... I would strongly question that with other L's.
YES very wise advise.
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Again, please see at least one other L. It is much easier to get this stuff upfront than to fight to change it later. I'm not a L, but I've talked to several and know a lot of people getting D'd and I would not put money on it being easy to change later.
More wise advise....
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You're fighting for your kids now and even if you hadn't planned to use that or "fight dirty", she's left you no choice....Really, I would not move out with that visitation schedule in place- fight for 50% NOW....
I AGREE.
DO NOT LET FEAR CONTROL YOU. Do the right thing.
We are here for you.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
