We have had counseling. We went twice and that was also the last time. The counseler was adressing his drinking problem and him putting in so much time with his friends, that when we left he told me he wasn't going to anyone who said he has a problem. I've tried every way possible to get help but he's made it clear he don't want it. One of his facebook messages said " I am me, I'm going to be me, ill die me, u can't change me". Its just hard to imagine this is where we are now. He used to be so loving and always wanted me and now I'm something he can't stand.
