Yep- she doesn't know if the other man has herpes. People with herpes can go years without flare-ups.
My sitch has only been going on for a few weeks (since D-Day), and I only started NC 4 days ago, but I find that I'm feeling SO much better now than when I was in the pleading, crying, calling, grovelling stage. If you feel the urge to contact her, come here and post about it instead.
Me-29 H- 28 Together for 6.5 years 2 kids, ages 9 and 5 D-Day: July 15, 2010.
