I am constantly amazed at both the different and yet same things that I hear from male vs. female on these boards. Venus vs. Mars, I guess.
Hint: We (women) are manipulaters by nature. We know how to get you do to what we want and think it is what you wanted all the time. USUALLY. As bad as it has been with my H in MLC, a female in MLC is SCARY SH!T.
IMHO, as Grit said, Back the Hell Away. The more you run, the more she will pursue. Don't be there for her. Let her figure it out herself. You will have a lot less grief that way.