Just wanted to let you know I read your post. I don't feel confident in giving advice here (not doing a great job with my own situation at the moment). Hang in there. I am sure one of the more experienced DBers will comment soon.
Me: 45 WAW: 45 | M22 | T25 | No Kids Nov 09 W Filed | Dec 09 Separation Mar 17 2010 Divorce Papers Signed | Divorce Hearing Cancelled Moved back home May 2010 PA Confirmed June 2010 | W left Dec 7 2010