Well you know my perspective on this GW... and how amazingly strong I think you have been! I am so glad to read about your strength and how you are now in control of your own sitch. Bravo!
Do NOT waver on your boundaries, no matter what. You know you cannot go back to her waffling and leaning on you as a friend then going back to contact with OM.
You are strong, you are in control, and you can do this. Although you care about her and her emotional state, you are not responsible for her. She is a big girl and is experiencing the consequences of her own choices and actions.
