Do you believe that the ow did this w/o your H's knowledge? When he called to ask you one last time if you'd reconsider signing with him for the loan, did he seem surprised at what you told him about the ow?
I believe that he may have given her the numbers to the acccounts to handle the bills. I always did that, he hated it. After I sent him my answer outlining everything that she had done, I haven't heard a word, not a peep.
She can lie all she wants, but when the evidence is there, well, I'll guess she underestimated me. She thought sending me the pics on FB would send me running for a divorce- they didn't, and she thought she could manipulate our financial situation - she can't. I'm curious what else they dig up on this chick when they do the background check.
I'll let you know. She is in the Army, so there was a security check done, but that doesn't mean they give a crap about what she does in her personal life. She would probably have been alright if she hadn't started poaching on her own reserve.
The name of the nail technique is called Shellac. It takes about 45 minutes, and around here it's about 20 dollars. You have to go once a week to start, but then it stretches out some. They even paint your nails and Shellac over them.
I faxed the requested papers to the Sheriff's Office this morning, and got a read-between-the-lines threatening Email from H this afternoon. I let a couple of co-workers read it, and they both agree that I need to forward it to the Sheriff's office tomorrow, as well. He is obviously trying to protect her, and is threatening to stop paying the mortgage and elec bills, etc. I think I am covered by the Army Spousal Protective Act by that. I just feel a little freaky about living out here in the woods alone. Last night, the dog barked and woke me up about 2:45 a.m., and I heard a truck engine at the bottom of the drive. I got up and turned on the outside lights. This morning going to work, there was stuff left on the pond dam that looked like someone was fishing or something. At 2 A.M.??
Don't mean to ramble, I'm just a bit freaked by that Email. I returned it to him as if I never read it.
I take it that you're pretty isolated where you live? Do you have means of protection if you needed it? How about the dog, he/she big enough(vicious)to help you out?
You ever considered possibly taking in a boarder? About 6'5", 250lbs?
I'm 1/4 mile from 4000 acres of National Forest. Last house on the road. Can't see a neighbor. My protection at this point is a can of wasp spray by the bed that can spray 25 feet. I also put my truck keys by the bed to hit the alarm if I had to, not that anyone out here would hear it. It would just make the dogs howl. My dog is apparently dying, and I can't afford to take her to the Vet.
As for boarders, I'm more a 6'2", 215 type of girl. But that would blow my vestal virgin image all to hell.
