Long Distance Issues.....Possible WAW

[Dazed&Confused]

Thanks Pin/Puppy! The 2x4 was needed! I talked to wife after I saw my kids on Skype. She wanted to talk about the divorce and the list, and what I wanted her to ask the lawyer. I told her that I had to get my own lawyer and that she could ask the lawyer anything she wanted.

She got quiet about that and asked why? I told her that I didn't think things were going to go the way she envisioned them. I told her that I didn't think child support could be worked out amongst us, and that 50/50 custody is the norm in Georgia. Pretty much everything that she said that she was going to do "for me" I could get anyways.

With that being said, she is not asking anything about my retirement or the house. She said that it is in my name and she didn't want anything to do with it. So I do have that going for me I guess. She also said that she doesn't want any of the furniture either.

Then I think I put the fear in her by making her think that I might be coming home soon! She said that she needed to know these things so she could start looking for a place. I told her that she didn't have to do that, she was the mother of my kids, she could stay as long as she wanted!

She asked me what I was waiting for, and I told her that I was just waiting on some "info" to come back and then I would know for sure. She kept on asking, I kept on dodging, and then she told me that she knew I was hiding something but she guess she lost the right to know what it was. She then went on to ask me why. I told because I didn't want to hate her after this was said and done either. (this is what she told me when she first dropped the bomb) That I had to make sure that we were doing this for the right reasons.

Then she went on to tell me why she wanted this to happen so fast. She said that she had been around divorce (both parents multiple times) when it went bad and she didn't want that for us.
And she knew how much she was hurting me, so she wanted to be fair about things and do right by me. But if I didn't think that we were doing this for the right reasons, she could turn into a bitch and only start worrying about her and the kids.

That pretty much sounded like if you don't give me this divorce fast, I will make your life a living hell, and you will not see the kids. Is that a threat? I think it was. If I don't hear from one the five freaking atty's I emailed by tommorrow, I am calling one and getting them on retainer then.

I can't beleive she went there. I back tracked a little with her to calm her down, but damn. I do not know this woman any longer, I truly don't. Pinhead, there will be snapping out of this one. I just want want this divorce, get my 50/50 paranting plan knocked out and in writing. I pray that child support wont kill me and will allow me to stay in my house for my kids, and that is about it.

She wants to stay in the house after the divorce is over until I get back. It would give me someone to look after it, but I will be charging her ass rent, that is for damn sure. Then to top it off, she wasn't wearing her freaking ring either. I guess I can ask for that in the list of stuff I want out of the house!

Well, that is my vent for the night folks, its my bedtime. Be nice to me, it was a terrible converstion.