In a word... YES. And althought I agree with the posters who advise not supressing your feelings, I also think it's important to be conscious of the fact that it is very easy to start to feel sorry for yourself and wallow in it a bit. You can't move throught the grief process without feeling everything you're supposed to feel so cut yourself some slack and let it out every once in a while. Then go do something that makes you happy. Even, no make that especially, if you don't feel like it. Browse a bookstore, a glass of wine with a trusted girlfriend, dancing, exercise class, hugging your kids ... whatever works for irish.
Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
