Originally Posted By: CD
But there is so much negativity towards me right now none of this stuff would affect her coming from me. IMO.


These "things" don't have longevity.

You are not your job are you?

You are not your car are you?

You are not the guy that can buy the nice house are you?

Your list up there is a good start.

It is funny you listed it just as I did when I was asked the same question...bullet point style ...funny, hmmmm.

You have to keep drilling down each one of these things until you get to the basic level...

Example: I was riddled with anxiety and self doubt I didn't want to do anything...why?

I realized I never healed from my first M and I doubted my own ability to make good choices.

The "what's" that happened were I took this out on my W and myself.

The why's were because I didn't deal with unresolved questions I had for myself. My choices and why I made them.

Action to kill this.

I forgave myself for my mistakes and I let go of resentments...

Laser shots CD.

You are on a seek and destroy mission.

Find your shortcomings and kill what you don't want in your life.

Then wake up each day and be the man you want to be

NOT

the man you think your W wants.

Or anyone else for that matter...


Last edited by Truegritter; 08/03/10 09:29 PM. Reason: spelling
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am