Bbj, please think hard if the excuses you are giving yourself about telling the kids about Dan's cheating will be enough to make you feel better afterwards...
What would the truth possible do for the 4 yr old Syndey and her "older" brother? Come on Bbj!! You would only hurt and confuse them. You may want to make sure they dont like Dan's R with OW, but that is selfish, a natural reaction to your hurt and your bruised pride. All understandable. I know how it feels, I do. But please think well before you do that. There will be time to explain to them. I think they are too young right now. Crushing their dad's image, cant be good. xxx K
