I know exactly how I got her. I was very affectionate; emailed/texted cute nothings all the time; spent lots of time doing nothing with her (TV, movies- quality time LL); and I was at a job 10 years and had a swagger cause I knew my stuff. Plus, the house; the Cobra; the drums; and not broke all the time. But there is so much negativity towards me right now none of this stuff would affect her coming from me. IMO.
I tend to agree. At least not right now. But the ATTITUDE behind this stuff is the "essence of CD Bear," and a core to which you need to return. YOU will be happier that you did, and at SOME point, I guarantee you that your wife WILL notice this stuff. It may be when OM dumps her ass, or it may be the day after your divorce is final. It may be three weeks from now or it may be two YEARS from now. But you DID attract her once, and there's a reason for that, and her brain will NOT always be closed to you chemically.
