I thought a little more.

Originally Posted By: CD

I allowed myself-
-to be overcommitted


See "NMMNG"
Appeasing (esp women)
Pleasing everyone but self
Looking for "Nice Guy" validation from her
Presumed "contract" (if I do x; you'll do Y)
Passive Aggressive bhvr
NOT asking for what I need/want
"Collapsed" on her. Made her "center of universe"
Sold my soul to keep her-surprised I got her (low self-image/esteem)