The time for "shock" is long since over, buddy. You had 24... 72 hours? Hell, almost two WEEKS to be in shock? It's time to get detached, researched up, LAWYERED up, and put on the male version of what Greek calls "Big Girl Panties." You're not doing your son and daughter any good by being in shock. Suck it up, rub some dirt on it, and get up off your ass and get to work.
It's way past time for Papabear to make his appearance.
