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Wow! That's a lot to be dealing with! You are handling it great chica!

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Thanks. But I give the alcohol credit too...(kidding).


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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You and me both! LOL (mostly kidding - I did make margaritas for myself Sunday night!)


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Well I did have a Little Capt Morgan and coke on Saturday. It was just one tho...


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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WOW Chris! That is a ridiculous amount of stuff to deal with in a few weeks time. It sounds like you are handling it very well though. Good for you!!!


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So today I got the papers that dismiss me from the bankruptcy. Funny thing...they are just to dismiss me. It seems that the SG is going to continue paying.

I find that amusing...

If he continues to pay for the bankruptcy I wonder if the bank will repo my car or if I get to keep it...I don't really want it. What I want is to consolidate my student loans, pay on them for six months, once tax time comes take two grand and lease a car.

This entire thing is surreal. Next month, I will be able to go back to my maiden name, and this whole ordeal will, once and for all, be completely finished. I thought this was going to break me, and here I am. I am not only still in one piece, but better than ever. I remember where I was a year ago, and how far I have come.

And although there have been some bumps, for the most part, I feel great. Wow.

And in two weeks I get to celebrate on a big fat ass boat, drinking a fruity drink, basking in the sun, and just being lazy.

Ahhh life is a beautiful thing.


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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...I thought this was going to break me, and here I am. I am not only still in one piece, but better than ever. I remember where I was a year ago, and how far I have come.
And although there have been some bumps, for the most part, I feel great. Wow.
Brava!!

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And in two weeks I get to celebrate on a big fat ass boat, drinking a fruity drink, basking in the sun, and just being lazy.
cool

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Ahhh life is a beautiful thing.

Good for you, LolaL.
You sound great.
And you deserve it!

Peace,


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"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac


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Sounds wonderful Christine!!!


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So I had a date yesterday.

It was great.

Second date will happen...and I am terrified.

Is that normal?

And yes, I do like him.


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Very nice Chris!

Terrified? I'd say it's normal. Just take it slowly and don't get your emotions too wound up in it. Have fun!

Where are you going to go?


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PA5/07
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D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
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