Ugh... S16 just told me he is worried about S14 - that S14 is "siding with dad" and thinks I am trying to manipulate him to my side. I was SO very careful in what I said to him but not careful enough. He just doesn't get it. He is borderline Aspergers (a form of autism - not a lot of emotion/social empathy) so I knew it would be tough, esp. since he is so much like H and identifies with him greatly.
Now I have to try to undo that. I don't want any of the kids feeling I am manipulating them!!!
