In regards to DB.....I set goals, and have reached some at some point, but then eventually H says "I don't want to be with you, you think just b/c I'm being nice everything is ok, and we'll fix things. I don't want to fix anything with you, we will never be together, I'm filing the papers whether you like it or not, to prove to you I'm done, and I'm not leading you on when I'm nice"

He says he doesn't compliment me b/c then I think he wants to be with me and we are ok, and will work things out.

So are the goals even worth setting, since they end up hurting me when I'm rejected all over again?

M:28 H:30
DD-9| DD-7| Baby- Due 11/10
T-14 | M-8

10/08- Bomb
4/09- Failed attempt at Marriage Fitness Program
3/10- WH moved out.
7/10- Informed me he's filing in Aug