S1S, Even though your H is a engineer this is a battle over how he feels. You need to change how he feels about you. What will he be losing?
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H will be bringing up seeing a lawyer tomorrow
Agree with him, he needs to see a lawyer because you have been doing some thinking and
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Honestly I think H and I have never really been the real us since we married!
This just isn't working for you either. You respect him and yourself enough to be your true selves. Then let him know you are going to go see a lawyer if he does to protect yourself. Be calm, cool and collected. He can't argue if you agree with him.
Now just imagine how is he going to feel after that conversation? Put yourself in his shoes. It's kind of sexy isn't it?
You can handle it.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
