Kerry I am trying to stay on the high road its just she is the one person on this earth that makes it the hardest for me. They say kids blame themselves for divorce, so wouldn't this help them see they are not to blame? Ok I am only 50% serious about that...
Honestly Kerry maybe they will be good together. Based on the history of their on/off again relationship, the texts I was (un)fortunate enought to see, etc. I am not sure how.
But that is truly what I want to know...what she is. Is she still a roll in the hay, a good time, but nothing more? Or is he serious about her...planning to get married and/or have a family with her. If she is still a fun-time-on-the-side, then that's nothing new. If he brought her around the kids because they are getting more serious, I just feel like I DO have a right to know as that will impact my kids. If she is going to move in, live there, bring her son to live there, things like that.
No I cannot and do not have a say but common decency would indicate that he should give me a heads-up if this is what is going on. I would if it were me. But this is where my brother says be careful not to assume he is working from the same principles base that I am.
down the road if he becomes a better man, better husband, better father through his relationship with her then I will have to be glad for that. I just don't see that based on past evidence...
Ok I am only 50% serious about that...
