This is going to take a little courage and fortitude but ask yourself really....."What is it that she sees in a 24 year old loser who lives with his brother/sister (whoever) point is he can't afford a place of his own. What was the initial attraction? I am not talking about looks here either.
Start to answer these 2 questions and you will start to "UNDERSTAND" her.
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
