DLS, I never thought about that. That's a good idea.
PH, I did not even like a few weeks of limbo and told my L to file. It feels like there is an end date now. The W thinks the D will be over in a month or two and not Jan 2011. I won't fill her in and let her believe our time is limited. Since I filed, I can alway pull the paperwork too. I am in control of the D right now not her.
When you guys look at each other, you likely get angry. She may also start in on you. I'm sure there are a dozen or more other tricks to tip things back toward your favour.
