Thanks everyone for your replies.

I know I have to completely let go. It is difficult for me but I am getting there.

My contact with ex is close to nothing. He texted me 3 times yesterday and I just did not respond. My ex's thinking is so irrational it makes me soooo goofy sometimes.

Even though I have a good career, I have always defined myself as a wife, and mother. The MLC really changes those dynamics. I am no longer a wife, and now I am a part-time mother. Finding a new path has been a challenge for me.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11