So STBXW responded with a laudry list of piddly stuff like the vases and cereal bowls etc. Then she ended the email with "That is what I can think of for now. It's hard to go over everything in my head since I can't see it all. Hope that helps."
ugh! she did pretty good in her head only forgetting the Q-tips perhaps. But the 'Hope that helps' bugs me.
I know you want a list ahead of time, but this could drag on forever! Is it possible to let her go through the house ONE more time only (tell her you have an hour and she needs to be done by then and gone) and pick out whatever it is from each room that she wants and be done with it?? I hate to see you expend so much mental energy for bowls and vases...
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Anyway, not much new to write lately. Things are going OK I think.
They are, aren't they. You've adapted so much since I first met you. And getting stronger and more assertive, etc. each week. I'm proud of you and think you will come out of this with a lot of stuff learned about yourself. I know this was never what you wanted- but you are doing a great job with DD and with stbxw and have come a LONG way!
((((hugs))))
-A
When the men on the chessboard Get up and tell you where to go; And you've just had some kind of mushroom And your mind is moving slow; Go ask Alice... I think she'll know.
