Oh, absolutely after drinking. Everything irrational has always been alcohol induced.
You need to set a boundary here.
The next time she she starts after drinking say,
W, it's obvious you have been drinking and I will not discuss the future of our home when you are in this state of mind.
Looks like you have seen some positive results with your DBing. Keep them up. I now it feels unnatural but you can't argue with results.
In fact to take it further you could say,
W, I will not have any discussions with you about anything after you have been drinking. I will not accept being treated badly b/c of your drinking.
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