This IS taken seriously.. it may be overlooked by his CO, but if you explore this I am confident you can blow this whole thing wide open.
Talk to QS, he's the one with the background in military exposures...
You can toss this into the conversation wtih his CO at any time ;
I apologize if infidelity makes you uncomfortable. This wasn't my choice to bring something ugly and counter to military policy into our home. If you think YOU feel uncomfortable imagine how I must feel right now?
If you think I am enjoying this you are mistaken. Infidelity is an uncomfortable business. Ignoring it doesn't make it any less comfortable for me. I think if your wife were making your marriage uncomfortable you would want me to give her a chat wouldn't you? Lets deal with this so yours and my discomfort doens't last any longer than it has to, OK?
Something like that...
I am hoping QS responds sometime today.. you can hold off until we hear from him.
