Another long term relationship bombed

[gr8 day 2B alive]

Pookie,

Thanks, I am a work in progress.

That was Friday. Now it’s Tuesday and she completely went ballistic on me last night.

I still think that manic depression cannot be out ruled. These extreme mood swings are not normal.

Let me ask you this,
when your wife goes ballistic on you, is it after she has been drinking?

The reason I ask is b/c my neighbors were going through problems too. His W would always "attack" him after she has been drinking.

Since she was texted by co workers and going to happy hour 2-3 times a week he suspected womething was going on.

Long story short, he started doing things for himself and told her if she doesn't want to stay here then leave. He even packed her bag for her.

I now notice her home right after work and they seem to BE GETTING ALONG SO MUCH BETTER.

I think once he showed her that he'll be fine with or with out her that she decided to stay.