DLS, I never thought about that. That's a good idea.

PH, I did not even like a few weeks of limbo and told my L to file. It feels like there is an end date now. The W thinks the D will be over in a month or two and not Jan 2011. I won't fill her in and let her believe our time is limited. Since I filed, I can alway pull the paperwork too. I am in control of the D right now not her.


Me 44, W 39, S 6, D 6, M 21
Bomb June 18, 2010
I filed D July 20, 2010
W filed counter suit Aug 2
Rings came off Aug 5, 2010