It is scary, and I still have some fear. My W made the choice for the kids and me. I just accept what will happen will happen, and I will be okay no matter what. It helps me to deal with the stress of it all. Check with attorneys for the best place to file. My attorneys told me the place that my W filed rules in favor of woman most of the time. I have to believe it will be okay.
It is not final yet, IDU. It has been said on here that maybe filing for D will be the wake-up call to the WAS. You never know.
Maybe it will bring you some peace too. You need that. It weighs on the mind. Limbo is no fun to be in forever.
You may have listened, but you were not ready to make the decisions you are now. Don't regret what you had done to get to the point you are now.
Remember it is never too late.
Keep doing what you feel is in yours and your kids best interest. It is your decision.
Take care and try to have a nice day!
ME-41 W-33 M-8 D-8 S-4 D 5/17/2010 www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1961097#Post1961097
