I am sorry to say that your H cannot wait out the MLC. Right now YOU need to begin to understand that he is totally f'up in the head. He is acting selfishly and this may continue for a long time so YOU really need to begin to think about YOU and YOUR children.
He is confused, yes BUT do not push him just go about and do what you want to do. He should be a part of the childrens live's but you need to separate YOU from the R he has between him and your children.
The sooner you begin to understand this the sooner your healing will come.
You have been DB'ing for 2 years now and I know you want to quit. You can. Just not on yourself. If quiting means that you let your H go by all means quit. If quiting means that you will give up on finding and owning YOUR happiness then do not quit. Or better yet..don't quit today. We can talk about you quiting tomorrow just not today.
Okay?
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
