Good question, NM.

I didn't ask him because we were outside, he was leaving, and it was like a tear-up-sunglasses-covering-quick-walk-away type of thing.

I would like to ask him. I might, if it feels right in the next week or so.

me, 30
WH, 29
D born June 2010
M: July 2001
Bomb/S: 1/14/10
Done with it all.