I'd consider today a victory; no fighting, enjoyed our time together, worked out. Small battles, small victories.
I know what you mean. I also know about the roomate feeling. It's no fun. Take it from me, I've been here too long. Hell, we're not even roomates. The roomates I had during college became some of my best friends in life. One was best man at our wedding.
IDK, I'm fresh out of advice. Hang in there and do the best you can.
Take care.
My current wife told me that becoming a room-mate changed the way she viewed me. I didn't have an option at the time, because I had no where else to stay. It was also tortuous for me, in that I could look at a lady thats supposed to be my wife, desire her, but never have it. In the end it diminished my libido and was scraping off self esteem by the day.
I don't suggest it, however if you have kids you may have to do it. I would suggest spending time with the opposite sex and out GAL while you are forced to do this to prevent parts of yourself from being stripped.
