Thanks so much for all the support, friendship and encouragement!
I have met the most amazing people through this...I am sure many of us feel the same way about each other.
My current sitch is living in the same house with H but preparing for moving me and the kids out... hopefully within the next couple of weeks.
H had a bit of an emotional meltdown last night.... going on about how it is "killing" him to think of me and the kids moving out and living with my parents.... while at the same time admitting he had lied to me about this past weekend and that he had seen OW! (He swears they are just "friends" now and only hung out together with a group of people. Whatever! )Sheesh!
I am realizing more and more every day that he is just not in a healthy place and not healthy to be married to. He needs to figure himself out, and without me to lean on for the first time in 20 years.
I am grieving. But I know what I need to do for me and the kids. And I am doing it.
I just wish I had a time machine to speed things up...
