Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[john28]

Yeah, it is hard. I don't want to lie to my wife either. I guess we'll just get better with time. Plus, when the W moves out, less of this will be required. She'll just grill my two Ds for info...

Hold on just a minute, guys. Nobody said that DBing teaches to lie to your S. GAL & being mysterous does not imply that you lie to anyone. We are just saying that if you play your cards correctly, you learn how to answer your W without spilling your guts all over the place. Seriously, you need to take lessons from my H. He has never given me a play by play of anything he ever attended.

But neither has he lied to me.

Chalk a lot of the misunderstandings on this site to relying on text without context! I don't lie to my wife, I've lied maybe 4 times in 13 years. I meant that I don't want to lie to her, that "being mysterious" often crosses the line for me into manipulation.

I guess I'd rather just say I was out. And have the stones to tell her when she asks "where?" "Out having fun."

I'm right there with you pinhead. I've been an open book always and any amount of mystery seems like deception on my part. Not telling the whole truth is lying in my opinion.