Shaken brother but NOT broken! Not broken one f'in bit. Your a hell of guy dude. As we NYer's would say...your one strong SOB!
Look the thing with your D and your W - you know that is between them. My only advice would be the same advice I would give to every situation.
Do what is right! Period. No buts, no what if's, no nothing. Just do what is right.
The issues that is going on between your W and your D are between them. Personally, I think your W should feel the guilt of all of her actions.
Your a hell of a dad dude.
P.S. thanks for the ear yesterday.
Love ya man, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
