Here you are. I was waiting for you on the other thread.
i don't direct others to my main thread because i don't want anybody to hijack my thread, and too much advice from too many different sources doesn't really help me.
i'm at the stage where i'm actually doing work on me. so i am making progress with the help of the vets who have been with me since day 1.
my thread is like my progress journal. i don't like to draw too much attention to it.