Originally Posted By: Truegritter

I know I have said this to you and it came from Grace

Your job is not to repair the relationship between your W and your children.

Your job is not to damage it.



Thanks for the reminder Grit, I think I did damage it. It was fine where it was I should have left it alone. Nickel to Grace too. smile

Originally Posted By: Truegritter

Your W has A LOT of guilt and it IS tearing her up.

I am all for guilt for the MLCr just not the kind applied directly by the LBS.


One of the things she said multiple times last night was "I'm the bad guy". I bet she said that 4 times in the span of 10 minutes.

When talking to my D13 later after my W left. D13 said that her mom said that same thing to her and D13 said to her mom "Dad doesn't think that and neither do I"

I swear we do not give enough credit to the preception of our children.

Originally Posted By: Truegritter

Keep the faith brother.


It got a little shaken today, I am coming back but it definitely took a hit. Gotta go back and find the positives.

Is it Little Friday yet?

Thanks for the support everyone. Kinda needed it today.


Formerly "missherlove"

Me49 XW49
M17 T19
S16 D20

Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.

~Jim Morrison