Hi Puppy You know what after the talk last night i even felt like there was less chance of her being in an affair. I think she wants to be out there playing the field like a 20 yr old but has nothing as yet.
Even if there was that crosses one of my personal boundaries and I would not take her back even if she wanted to come back.
Just to clarify she wasn't talking about abandoning her kid. It came up in the context or her talking about moving out and I asked her how she was going to take care of her S when she worked shifts. She said she would get friends and sitters to mind him and he would just have to deal with it. It was all calm and i said to her that that doesn't sound fair on either her Son or her friends. That was when she her "this is my life comment"
The way it was made was more indicative of a spoiled brat more than someone who had a plan.
There was no time over the last week or so that she wasn't either working or home. She just sits around for the most part in a bad mood.
The only thing I can think of is the A is in her head right now and she thinks if she separates she has a chance of making it real.
