Seeing as Dan is still seeing Stephanie, however casually, then we can assume thats why he was never able to work on an R with you. It wasnt that he didnt "choose your gift of love" (sounds a bit stalkerish!), just he chose to go love someone else I guess. Maybe he did genuinely break up with her back then when you saw his break up email and he was in turmoil over splitting with you and divorcing..but that as the D is now finalised, perhaps they ended up picking up where they left off. Its not that surprising hun, but yes he was cowardly to not let you know that.
It must be very hard to know that he is introducing her to YOUR kids, so I think you handled it admirably! I dont see why you keep texting each other, especially over such important things as introducing gf's to the kids. I think you said there was no rule in the D about that, but it still warrants a face to face convo??
Hugs xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
