Khudoo, can't give advice except that these wild mood swings seem to be the norm for WAW. I know mine is doing the same, and like you said, it's like they forget they are mad/don't love us anymore and for me it seems I pay the price the next day
I don't want D, and do want a version of the original W back, but not this one. Some days suck, others go relativly easy.
hoping for more of the later for both of us
Mood swings are one thing. That statement she made about the kids is not only unconscionable, it's HIGHLY indicative of someone totally addicted to an affair partner.
Khudoo, I know you've checked, and pretty thoroughly, too, but we MUST have missed something. Women, esp., don't just abandon their kids' needs with statements and attitudes like that unless there's an OM, I'm sorry.