Do you think you get to a point where you say ok, I have been disrespected, lied to, manipulated and disappointed to the point where you finally just say I dont want to fight over this OP anymore just go...be with OP because I cant do this anymore. You wanted to believe with all of your heart that your spouse would stop seeing that person but they don't and finally you just say I dont deserve this, kids don't deserve this, if you want OP so badly please stop hurting everyone and just go to OP.You can't have us both anymore. I dont want to lose everything and I dont want to take my family down. Why can't he just stop doing what he is doing. I dont understand at all. I want to believe and trust him but I dont know how to do that.

Last edited by swimmingupstream; 08/03/10 01:32 PM.