Thanks for your thoughts SA and punkin. I mighta, kinda, sorta done that in a very small way. I told XH that his hair looked really nice..........and while we were playing PP, XH was pulling PP balls out of his pockets, and I asked him if he had any more balls in there? XH: "No". Me: "Are you sure there aren't any more balls in there? I think there might be some"
I have some mixed feelings about all of this that I will write about soon. Help in putting those mixed feelings into perspective would be appreciated
I mighta, kinda, sorta done that in a very small way. I told XH that his hair looked really nice..........and while we were playing PP, XH was pulling PP balls out of his pockets, and I asked him if he had any more balls in there? XH: "No". Me: "Are you sure there aren't any more balls in there? I think there might be some" 
