If you want me to tally up your H's bad spirit contributions I can do that too.. in DETAIL
You don't want a repeat of last weekend. If he is going to do the homework and continue with the program its a sincere effort, not someone going through the motions to humour YOU. He has to WANT to work things out... that's the first step. It doenst' have to be 100% enthusiasm, even 5% is enough... But if he is giong to work on this while prowling facebook for old girlfriends in secret tell him no deal.
Relationship Rescue helped me out a lot. I would buy that book for him, and there is a workbook with exercises to accompany it too. Turn him into a Dr Phil fan. lol