Hey BD! Didn't expect you to be there right now! Thanks so much for your 'pick me up' post. I needed that and I am also feeling heaps better healhtwise today smile
I thought I would ask him to come but on MY terms for once; that us, for a few hours until I have to go to mothers group later that day, and that he drives the car home so I get to care for bub if she is grizzly. I will hold her - she needs me, not him.

As for him coming, I still think he is 'playing' at being dad, cos he really IS clueless. I think MIL had a word about the vaccinations with him.

As for his "moments" comments, I don't mean to be bitchy but all he has is moments and photos, no real experiences. It's very sad for him.

I should also reassure you that I love my baby girl to bits. We have so much fun!!! So, I am having simulataneously the worst time in my life, and the best, but best is winning right now. YAY!

HUGS