2g, I know it is tough and if you are resentful that is understandable. If you would not be, you probably would not be human. I am so sorry that you are going through all of this. Having a baby on the way must be very difficult. The detach thing is very important for your own sanity. You need to be the strong mom that is deep inside you. You need to be there for your kids. How your husband could be happy is beyond comprehension but do not assist him in any way to sign papers or email or whatever. His response says he is in confusion. Let him stay in confusion. Are you happy when you are confused? Seems like he is going to spin and spin for a while. The more interaction you have with him, the more you are going to get hurt with his venom. Keep reading. Hang in there. You will get stronger the more you detach. You will need this strength no matter which way your H goes. There are lots of people on this board going through this with their spouses. Nobody is saying that this is an easy thing to go through. Keep posting. Let us know how you are doing. Don't worry about a running MLC'r. I keep reading that their new life they are chasing is not all that is cracked up to be. I see that in my wife as well. You will see proof of that when you start to detach more.
