WH has emailed asking if he can attend our baby's vaccinations tomorrow morning. I would like to tell him to come along, but only if he plans to stay for a few hours afterwards & help if she is feeling sickly.
wow! At the very least he is acting like a father should, that is huge! It also will give you a time to bond, but do it only if you're comfortable with it. I would be honest and tell him you'd like him to stay for a few hours. If you decide to allow him to be there do it purely for the baby's sake. And anything else, if it makes trigger in his heart or his brain is a bonus. Truth is if he feels or thinks of anything else he will not show it nor admit. He may actually fight the idea that this is what its like to be a family, BUT he will be thinking it and who knows!
But like I said do it for your bub.
Originally Posted By: Piano
He has thanked me for the time I let him spend ALONE with her. He says "these moments are important to me". Ugh.
Now if only these moments could convince him to stay and want to be be more involved in her life.
Glad to see something positive coming from your H.
