Wife filed for divorce...Is there still hope?

[LSG]

Hi Savingmymarriage,

Where is your thread. Do you go by a different name.

I have felt so much like you describe in the first paragraph of your post. I do feel that I so much detached these days, and it has been so difficult to reach this poing in my sitch. I do have momentary lapses where the emostions for her flood, but they have lessened, and the intensity is not as strong as before. I do know that she wants the courts to kick me out, and I will not leave until I have a court order, and if I am kicked out, so be it.

Savingmymarriage you are so calm in describing your situation. The explainations and the way you describe your life really hit home for me because I do see alot of similarities.

It is good you have found an A to help guide you. It is very necessary to have.

Do you appreciate your W not pursuing the D if you think it is alot to do with you having no job? Just curious!

We talk a little more lately, but it is not much. After tomorrow, the M will be further strained. My filing she will not like.

I would love nothing more than my W changing back to the person I fell in love with, but I have realize that it probably will not happen soon enough. Change is always possible I suppose.

Thank you for your very meaningful and insightful posts.

I wish the best and that you are able to somehow save your marriage.